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.And the longer we wait, thebetter it is going to be. He felt Jennifer's body writhe beneath him as she sighed and panted withdesire.Finally, when he knew that she was about to climax, Joe suddenly penetrated her fulllength.Jennifer cried out, and her body seemed to bounce on the couch with each repeated strokeas she flung herself into orgasm.The sight, feel, and sound of his wife's body in such a throes ofpleasure was more than Joe needed for his own climax, and he felt the hot, warm semen flowingout of him in response.They lay together for several minutes, until Joe reluctantly led her back from hyper- empira.They showered, and Joe put some more logs on the fire while Jennifer prepared a secondround of drinks.Then they returned to the couch in their bathrobes to watch television. That waswonderful! Jennifer exclaimed. It wasn't like I was just feeling vibrations, and it didn't feelmechanical at all, because I was feeling - When they had finished their drinks, they stretched out on the couch facing each otherand were silent for a few moments, listening absentmindedly to the television without botheringto watch it, as Jennifer slowly ran her fingers through the hair on Joe's chest while she snuggledcontentedly beside him.Suddenly, she reached over and turned the TV off with the remotecontrol and smiled up at him mischievously. Okay, big guy, let's see what Oscar feels like whenI do it! Joe opened his mouth as if to reply, but Jennifer tenderly laid her index finger across hislips. Turn over, honey, you've got lots more left. THE EYES OF LOVEBy Matthew Imer, Ph.D.Couples in the 1990's and beyond, whether gay or straight, will need to find new ways ofdeepening and enriching their commitment to one another as monogamous relationshipsbecome not merely desirable, but perhaps the only safe way to remain sexually active.The following illustration of openness in communication between same-sex lovers offersa lesson in genuine companionship from which anyone, gay or straight, can learn.Brent and Larry were well on the way to establishing a solid relationship as a gay couple,but they found themselves getting very awkward in intimate situations because they were bothvery concerned about being safe in their sexual practices. I've been afraid of sex -- even safe sex-- because of AIDS, Brent said one evening when they had returned to Brent's apartment afterseeing a movie together. We're obviously attracted to each other, but what can we do? Just hugand give each other dry pecks on the cheek? That's about all you can do in safe sex, but that's notenough, is it? Leave it to me, responded Larry, who had become seriously interested in the study ofhyper-empiria.After first making an agreement with Brent that whatever happened that eveningwould be within the bounds of what is considered safe sexual practice, Larry guided Brent intohyper-empira while practicing self-suggestion at the same time.Then he asked, How do youfeel, Brent? I feel good.How about you? Me too, Larry responded. Now I want you to use your imagination some more.In alittle while, I'm going to open my eyes and look at you.I'll lightly caress your neck when I'mlooking at you.As soon as you feel that touch, you can begin to open your eyes and look at me. OK, said Brent. But unlike anything you've ever known before, you'll be seeing me with the eyes of love.And that will be so beautiful that it will be a better turn-on than you've ever felt.You'll besurprised to learn how powerful and beautiful just looking into my eyes can be.And the samething will be happening inside me as I look at you with the eyes of love.OK? Yeah. The two looked at each other and began to notice how wonderful and sexy eye contactcan really be. Now I'm going to kiss you lightly on the lips just once, Brent.But as soon as youfeel my lips, there will be something powerful that you will feel -- perhaps like fire or electricityin your lips.Whatever that feeling is, it will give you more and more pleasure as you notice itgrowing stronger and stronger.And the feeling will begin to spread out through the rest of yourbody -- like warmth or tingling or waves of pleasure.Whatever the feeling seems like to you, youwill realize that it is something stronger than anything that an ordinary wet kiss ever made youfeel.And I am going to feel exactly the same way. To their delighted surprise, the light kiss really was better than anything they had knownbefore. Now, Brent, I'm going to kiss you again on the lips, then on the cheeks, forehead, and allover your face.Each kiss will be more powerful than the one before it, as the warmth builds up more and more in your entire body. They continued mutually experiencing the heightened sexual awareness of thevisualization in which they have both joined. Now I'll remove your shirt, Brent, and as you feelthe cloth slipping off your skin, your body will become even more energized and excited.Thenyou can remove my shirt and the same thing will happen to me.And we will kiss each other onthe shoulders, neck, chest, and nipples, and each kiss will seem better than the one before. Larry and Brent continued thus until they were naked, basking in the ecstatic glow theyboth were feeling. Now, Larry went on, you will feel free to tell me exactly where you wantme to touch you.We will get great pleasure out of this because we won't have any fear.You cantell me if I'm doing it right or wrong.I'll get pleasure out of anything safe that makes you feelgood. Then Larry said, I'm going to tell you just how I want to be touched.It will be safe, andit will be more beautiful than anything risky could ever be.I want to feel your hands touchingme, giving me the safety of the pleasure that only you can give me. When the mind is properly prepared by means of hyper-empira and visualization, thesexual experience which results will be memorable indeed.Without ever going beyond caresses,dry kisses, and genital fondling, with the aid of mutual suggestion the two had reached a heightof pleasure they never expected, achieved it without fear, and were able to experience thewonderful, loving tenderness of a truly committed couple. THE FIRST TIMEThe first time that you made love, was it everything that you had hoped for, or was itperhaps something just a bit less, because anxiety and tension got in the way of yourenjoyment? Have there ever been times -- then or later when you wished that you couldsimply choose to feel differently and make it happen?It was the last day of Becky's college classes.She was now a senior, and she and severalfriends had gathered at the home of a faculty member for beer and pizza.Becky and herboyfriend, Fred, whom we met earlier, were sitting at a table on the patio with Randy, who hadthe build, looks, and personality of a campus jock, but who wanted to be a priest; and withMillie, an older student in her thirties who had returned to school after her divorce, and who hadbeen occasionally filling in as a part-time departmental secretary that year
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